If there is a hard road and an easy road, I almost always seem to find the hard road. That’s especially true in learning my lesson, on or off the horses. In this case it was both. Â
When I swung up onto the saddle, I knew it didn’t feel as tight as it should. But, my mom had saddled my horse for me and I thought it should be just fine.
We took off down the road and started the training pace of a fast trot, an incredibly bumpy ride but good for conditioning horses for the track. We do long distances at a fast trot to help build muscle on the horses because they have to work harder to keep pace without breaking into the smooth, long strides of a gallop. Mom and her horse moved ahead of me. I started to notice the slippery saddle, but I’d grab the horn and pull it back to center.
Still, it kept moving to the left and I was really starting to have a hard time making it stick.
It didn’t take long before I found myself in quite a pickle.  Part of the problem was I was on a racehorse which could see another horse pulling ahead and frankly, did not like it. My mom was so far ahead at this point, she couldn’t hear me screaming for her to stop – my horse was taking a cue from her and thought it was time to run faster.
Even though I was trying to stop my horse, all the bouncing of a slippery saddle was likely either scaring her or signaling her to run faster.
I had just enough time to consider all of these “problems†I was having before I found myself on the side of my horse, no longer on her back. My head was bobbing just a few inches from her moving legs and I was now pretty close to riding under my horse.
The escalating circumstances got the best of me and I decided it was time to jump ship.
I thought to myself, “Just tuck and roll.â€
I stretched out my arms like superman and dropped.
I hit the ground hard. Really hard.
I landed on my side but right on the point of my hip bone so I stayed down a minute, dazed and a little stunned.
Once I dusted the snow off and found all fingers and toes still pointing in the rightful direction, I was mad. Mad at my horse, mad at my mom and mad a neighbor had just seen the whole thing. He thought I really hurt myself so he jumped into his truck and raced over to the “scene.â€Â
My lovely mother, who had started the whole thing by saddling my horse and taking off in front of me without looking back, had finally stopped. The neighbor made it over to me before she did.
I ended up being happy he was there since it made for at least one witness that was concerned and not just amused. My mom was too busy laughing to ask if I was OK.
I grabbed my horse (who decided she would stop once I was off and also seemed to be laughing at me) and right-sided my saddle. I finished out the ride with nothing seriously hurt but my pride.
I liken my lesson that day to the old proverb, “Trust in God but lock your door.†I know I can trust the ones I love but I’ll tighten my own cinch from now on.  Â
As for my mom, even though it was mainly her fault (she was, after all, supposed to be tightening my cinch) she still laughs until she cries when she thinks of looking back just in time to see me make snow dust as I planted the ground.